Truth of Life

People know me as a jolly man who is always smiling and armed with his goofy PJ’s which can choke anyone and acts faster than Nitrogen Dioxide (Laughing Gas)(NO2 ).I remember once friend said to me “Vinni you can make a dead man choke to death twice with you weird stuffs and i feel jealous of him that he is dead and is not subjected to your goof ups” Anyvys,Coming to the point, Last week I was chatting with one friend of me who is currently at Onsite(as a matter of fact 93.5% of people of my batch are at onsite but I couldn’t make it as my US VISA couldn’t make though US lottery system last year). Anyvys, I was chatting to this friend of mine and after all my goof ups,PJ’s and bakwaas I asked her on a serious note.Hey,How are you? You happy there na?And reply was something which has become very common in our generation, Vineet I am ok! Just O.k. I asked again Are you happy or not? And the answer was ambiguous and what I could make out was that she wasn’t at the happy side. So just to cheer her up I started again with my choking dose of nuisance and bit of philosophy. Then she said something I will quote her exact words/or part of the chat

****[8:31 PM]:sometimes..
****[8:32 PM]:i dunno wat to say...
****[8:32 PM]:u know how to live....
****[8:32 PM]:how to smile
****[8:32 PM]:how to make others smile
****[8:32 PM]:u know wat is life
****[8:33 PM]:wats the ultimate truth in life
****[8:33 PM]:serioulsy...sometimes i keep wondering..who wud be your lucky wife...
Vineet Kumar Singh [8:34 PM]:hey..thnks fr all ths..bt dnt get me wrng..i am nt praising myself and al...but knw what just one point is correct f all above....i knw "What is Life"


Hey **** I agree with just one point, rest I don’t wana comment and its not that my thoughts are something very out of the box or I understand the complexities of life and this that…What crap..With 0.1 % of brain which a common human has I can’t waste all that in understanding life but as you have triggered the issue. I just want to share you, how I take life?

Life to me is like Wife to you...Yucks that was sad. I just said it coz it was rhyming. And it has got nothing to with the write up.

On a serious note, life to me is neither a friend nor an enemy and not a puzzle too as Rajesh Khana said in a Movie. Life to me is like a sibling a brother/sis of same age who is better than me in everything and anything under the sun. And he/she competes with me for everything but with no mal-intention, a healthy competition between siblings. I know that I can’t defeat him/her but I am a kid with big ego so I fight. I fight for everything from toys to clothes to sweets to TV remote control. 40% times I win and 60% times Life wins.And we keep fighing, life poses deep challenges for me just to show me down and win over me and I am always on my toes fighting against it. I am wounded ,I am hurt but I can’t show it to my bro/sis or he will make fun of me that I am a crypot/looser.I do cry but when no one’s watching so that I stand tall in front of my siblings. And that frustrates life and it tests me again coz according to the Rulz Life can’t be declared a winner unless I bow down, get down on my knees… unless I say that Life is OK!

The moment I say that Life wins over me and gets away with all toys.clothes,sweets and also the joy,fun,success of life and I can’t let that happen. And that’s what our generation is doing, I understand that we all are facing challenges in one way or the other, I understand that we all are hurt but Guys Please don’t bow down.Everytime you bow down look at the corner ahead there is your bro/sis peeping at you, ready to take away everything. And we aren’t goanna let it happen.

And know what one day we both will grow and stop competing and start supporting each other but we all got to survive till that day and keep fighting, keep struggling.So guys its totally ok if you fall down but get up with a bang and never ever utter these words” Why with me or Only I am sad” You say all this because you are so engulfed into you miseries and sorrows that you don’t realized how blessed you are.

Second reason I smile or pretend to smile is that there are so many people who derive energy from me(Please don't get me wrong,i am not glorifying myself), I just want to be with anyone and everyone around me who is sad/depressed and for that its imp that I get over my petite wars/issues and down falls and stand tall supporting my loved ones. Look around there are many of your friends who need your help and support but they can’t ask you/look up to you coz every time they look up to you they find you always in deep shit and they walk away alone consoling you. In nutshell we all love to be at the receiving end (Love, care.advice, gifts etc,), try being at the donors end (It’s not that bad) and for that you need to smile, smile over your sorrows. Issues/problems…Smile over your siblings who still can’t figure out How do I smile after all this? Believe me it irritates him (Life) a lot.

All the Best! Guys!

Note * A section of reader might feel all this as bookish or may be to some extent foolish thoughts, they have all the right to feel the same. A section might also think that writer is trying to glorify himself with his thoughts and divine philosophies, to them I say “Fight against your and your loved ones issues/problems/sadness, a mortal stuff like me is not worth your efforts”.